You deserve a healthy love relationship. You deserve to choose what is right for you.
When you consciously shift the relationship with yourself, your love life transforms.
No more seeking outside validation. Self trust over second-guessing. Helping 1000s own their worth, not chase his attention.
SICK OF:
Second guessing yourself
OVERTHINKING Your EVERY ACTION and text sent
GETTING STUCK IN SITUATIONSHIPS
Dropping everything to make yourself available and getting little in return
Wondering what you did wrong
Believing there are no good guys left
HAVING all this love to give and get nothing in return
crying on your bathroom floor
GOING all in aND THEY CHANGE mind ONLY weeks later
helpIng women become the most securely loved version of themselves
HI! I’m Jillian
Dating & Self-Trust Coach For Women, IFS, CTRC, Attachment Repatterning
I help women, like you, attract secure, relationship-ready love, without settling, chasing, or losing yourself, using evidence based coaching methods.
Dating can be fun, when you use a strategy (yes, a strategy) to help you get what you want.
Because Love doesn’t happen by luck, accident of coincidence.
No more waiting to be chosen and wondering if they’re going to text. It’s your turn to start choosing what works for you. And, create the love you want in your life.
You struggle in love for a reason, but it’s not because there’s something wrong with you! Your past shapes what you’re subconsciously drawn to, which is why you keep attracting the same type of dating partners. The ones who leave you spiraling between texts, make you guess where the relationship is going, go all in (love bomb you) only to ghost three weeks later, or tell you, “you’re too much.”
No wonder dating sites feel exhausting—endless bad dates, breadcrumbing, ghosting, and situationships are draining and disappointing and less than what you deserve!
But, If you keep dating blindly, you’ll stay stuck in this cycle of heartbreak, self-doubt, and self-sabotage. You’ll keep asking, “Where the f*ck are they?” and “When will it finally be my turn?”
But it doesn’t have to be this way. Love is not luck, or accidental. Confident women have a strategy to get what they want, and you can too. There are good ones left. You are deserving of love.
“THE SECRET OF THE DATING POOL”
It's Time to Step into Your Power
as a Self-Led, Self-Loved CONFIDENT WOMAN!
LET’S TRANSFORM YOUR LOVE LIFE
FROM DATING APP TO COMMITMENT.
FROM DATING APP TO COMMITMENT.
Radically Aligned Love MEMBERSHIP
She’s got a book in her bag, a deep conversation on her lips, and a mind that isn’t easily swayed. She trusts herself deeply, but it wasn’t always that way.
From swipe to first date. Revamp your dating profile. Attract men who are serious and emotionally available. Stop being ghosted and get the f*ck off the Apps.
Stop overthinking their silence, spiraling between texts, and settling for breadcrumbs. Learn how to take control of the conversation, identify red flags early, and attract emotionally available partners—all through your texts.
Boost your confidence and transform your dating and relationship patterns from questioning whether he likes you to choosing what works for you. Learn the SKILLS to create lasting relationships. Get more dates with the ones you like!
WHAT MY CLIENT’S ARE SAYING
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE PERFECT AND HEALED TO HAVE A LOVING RELATIONSHIP. BUT, YOU DO NEED SKILLS & AWARENESS TO CHOOSE SOMETHING DIFFERENT AND CREATE THE LOVE YOU ACTUALLY DESERVE.
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