HI! I’m Jillian

I help women attract secure, relationship-ready love, without settling, chasing, or losing themselves, using evidence based methods.

For years, I struggled in love—staying too long in bad relationships, missing or ignoring red flags, blaming myself, spiraling over unanswered and delayed texts. I went from bad date and relationships until I finally ended up in an emotionally abusive relationship that left me a shell of myself, staying too long, and no longer recognizing myself. So dating for love, for me, is a personal mission.

Because healthy safe and secure relationships skills aren’t taught in school. Instead we learn from patterns passed down through generations—shaped by wounds, coping mechanisms, lack of awareness and blind spots. That’s why for some, love feels easy and for others it feels like a painful emotional roller coaster.

I wish there were tools that could have help me along so I didn’t have to learn trial by fire and repeated heartbreak, but nothing existed beyond therapy and putting the rest of the pieces together myself. Once I figured it out, I went from Dating App to Relationship with my forever partner in 3 months. It took me until I was 41. I don’t want this for you. There’s enough pressure you’re dealing with in life already.

I’ve taken my education, training, and personal experiences and poured them into courses and tools designed to help you every step of the way so you can skip the heartbreak and learn what I wish I’d known sooner.

Most approaches to dating and relationship either address the skills to help build and create healthy connection and attachment to others, or they address the trauma and experiences that block your connection to love, but don’t give you the skills to build relationships. To create a safety and love within a relationship both things need to happen.

I bridge the gap. I give you both the skills to date from a place of confidence and to move through the deeper stuff to help you transform your relationship with yourself and to continue to heal in relationship.

You deserve to create a love story that feels good on your nervous system—one that lasts and leaves you excited about love every step of the way.