1:1 Coaching

UPDATE YOUR DATING STRATEGY FROM ANXIOUS TO CONFIDENT.

HI! I’m Jillian

Certified Dating Coach For Women & Attachment Repatterning Practitioner

I help women, like you, attract secure, relationship-ready love, without settling, chasing, or losing yourself, using evidence based coaching methods.

Dating can be fun, when you use a strategy (yes, a strategy) to help you get what you want.

Because Love doesn’t happen by luck, accident of coincidence.

No more waiting to be chosen and wondering if they’re going to text. It’s your turn to start choosing what works for you. And, create the love you want in your life.

When we change the relationship with ourselves, our love life transform.

Transform Your Dating Experience

Are you tired of:

  • Feeling like you've got all this love to give, but getting nothing in return

  • Being cool until you start liking them, then anxiety spikes

  • Constantly checking your phone and social media waiting for texts

  • Feeling uncertain and filled with self-doubt

  • Wondering what's wrong with you when they don't stay

You're not alone. And it's not your fault.

Your attachment style is trying to protect you—but it's keeping you stuck in patterns that prevent the very connection you want to create.

Why Most Dating Advice Doesn't Work For You

If it was as simple as understanding and changing your mindset, you wouldn't be here.

You've probably tried:

  • Reading all the self-help books

  • Working on yourself

  • Following dating rules

  • Trying to be "more chill"

  • Pushing down your feelings

But here's the truth: Generic advice can't address your unique patterns.

Ready to Break Free From Anxious Patterns?

Through 1:1 coaching, you'll:

  • Uncover your unique attachment triggers

  • Build genuine dating confidence

  • Transform your relationship patterns

  • Create authentic connections

  • Attract secure love

This isn't just about "fixing" your dating life. It's about transforming how you show up in relationships—for good.

You'll learn exactly how to:

  • Show up authentically in relationships

  • Communicate with clarity

  • Set healthy boundaries

  • Stop self-sabotaging patterns

  • Trust your instincts

  • Express yourself confidently

Book Your Free Consultation

Let's discuss:

  • Your current dating challenges

  • What's keeping you stuck

  • If we're a good fit to work together

  • Your next steps toward transformation

  • First 20 minute consult is FREE

[Book Your Free Consultation]

Note: I only work with women who are ready for real transformation. If that's you, let's talk.

WHAT MY CLIENT’S ARE SAYING

  • HOLY SH*T, The texting Course was a game changer for me. I spotted those not for me right on the app. When my dates moved to text. I knew exactly what To do

    Vivi Laurie

  • CAN'T UNSEE THE RED FLAGS. I've been dating the same person for 6 months by choice.

    Jayme Stitch

  • I love Jillian. this is the cleaerest and most confident I have ever felt dating.

    Lindsay Buck

  • my new dating profile attracted men I wanted to choose from. Like, I actually had choices!

    Faith Sicley

  • thank you, Jillian. I didn't think I really needed dating help, but tried it on a whim. Wow was I wrong. I'm now engaged at 38!

    Kelli Sash

  • I had no idea how changing something as simple as your dating profile could help you meet totally different men. dating 4 months now.

    Molly Mixette

  • texting was the worst part of dating for me. I hated this phase. I ruined connections, and never got what I really wanted. not anymore! it's about what I want now.

    Tasha Brown

  • I love texting now. I love everything you can learn from someone this way. I don't worry and panic like I used. I still worry sometimes, but now I don't blame myself when I do. So my anxiety goes away faster.

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YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE PERFECT AND HEALED TO HAVE A LOVING RELATIONSHIP. BUT, YOU DO NEED SKILLS & AWARENESS TO CHOOSE SOMETHING DIFFERENT AND CREATE THE LOVE YOU ACTUALLY DESERVE.

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